Spending Time With God

Ok, I was thinking lately about personal time with God. If I claim to love God so much then why don't I take time to spend time with Him. I always make time for friends and family and think about them a ton. How come I don't spend time with God and think about Him all of the time? I want to get into a real and deep relationship with Him that isn't just on the surface, but I'm not sure how. Is that crazy?!!! It makes me wonder if I really actually love God, and that's crazy because I want to, but I don't know how or if I do or what. I'm so lost!